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Type: subreddit
Author: multiple
URL: r/IncelsWithoutHate

/r/IncelsWithoutHate is a whitepilled and purplepilled subreddit dedicated to inceldom-related discussions that are supposed to be devoid of hateful speech, misogyny, or ideology in general. In reality, they allow pill jargon and by doing so just become an extension of traditionalist politics.

The subreddit is the largest community in the incelosphere, consisting of a subscriber base that is numerically into the 5 digits. Its content covers a wide variety of topics. Some threads ask for advice regarding inceldom or depression. There is also general “blackpill” demotivational content. Some users present studies related to virginity or sexual attraction. Even though it is technically the largest incel forum, it receives little media attention compared to other forums such as and the now defunct Braincels.

One of the two original editors of this site and incels dot wiki was notably a heavy user of this subreddit.


The userbase as of 2020 consists mainly of “blackpill” proponents. Since the major blackpill boards were banned from Reddit, hateful blackpillers started taking up shop in this “withouthate” sub, often posting veiled anti-racemixing posts and other vaguely alt-right content. They are usually unwelcome though, and are frequently banned, even though they still manage to raid and concern troll most threads. Often highly upvoted posts will be flooded with blackpill trolls, in a weird juxtaposition to the upvote count of the thread itself, suggesting the blackpillers are a loud majority there.

There are currently around 25,000 subscribers to r/IncelsWithoutHate as of 2020.[1]

Current Admin and mods

As of 2020:

  • Board_Gaming (moderator) (former Braincels mod)
  • L_Henry_Wotton (moderator)
  • wolfwood989 (moderator)
  • ihpsdm (moderator)
  • chessman6500 (moderator) ( user)


2017 incelswithouthate screenshot
2017 screenshot

Incelswithouthate was created on Apr 9, 2017. It’s first moderators were:

  • L_Henry_Wotton
  • wolfwood989
  • animositisomina35
  • ihpsdm

New moderatorship

After the Braincels quarantine (not ban), Board_Gaming, a female Reddit user left Braincels. Eventually she started modding IncelsWithoutHate.

Linking to “incel exit” threads

In 2020, the sub began linking /r/IncelExit in the sidebar, a subreddit devoted to “exiting” from the “incel mindset”.[2] They also link to depression management and self-improvement subs.[3]


See Also

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