Lookism
Lookism, otherwise known as, looksism, is a synonym of cacophobia, but without a psychiatric context. One popular forum dedicated to lookism is lookism.net. Most humans are extremely, naturally lookist.
Incels sometimes self-obsess over their appearance as most dating is moving online, and online men who are average or ugly get almost no luck on these sites. It is a brutal form of lookism that keeps them from getting matches.[1]
In this increasingly dominant dating paradigm, the only way to succeed is through vanity. So you could see incels as being forced in a way to become vain to attract a partner in modern dating. The opposite of lookism is personalitism.
Looks are necessary to the formation of physical or romantic desire
Women place a minimum threshold of attractiveness on potential mates.[2] Women also lie about the degree of importance of physical attractiveness.[3] One could begin to bargain that while looks matter, other factors matter too. One’s full attractiveness could be seen as a composite score of their attractive features. Sadly, Looks were the only factor to predict interest in speed dating.[4] Attractiveness and masculinity also predicts a woman’s chance of orgasm.[5] Looks are highly heritable as well.[6] There is an idea that looks only play a role in short team partnerships, while features such as personality matter more in a long-term relationships. This is not the case.[7]
LMS theory
According to the LMS theory, looks is an important factor in the Mate choice behavior of woman.
References
- ↑ https://qz.com/241479/okcupid-experimented-on-users-and-proved-everyone-just-looks-at-the-pictures/
- ↑ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0092-x
- ↑ https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html
- ↑ https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2005-11095-001
- ↑ https://putslab.la.psu.edu/documents/Puts%20et%20al.%20EHB%202012-1.pdf
- ↑ https://www2.psy.uq.edu.au/~uqbziets/Mitchem%20et%20al%202013%20Estimating%20the%20sex-specific%20effects%20of%20genes%20on%20facial%20attractiveness%20and%20sexual%20dimorphism.pdf
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22468419