A nice guy is a guy who acts receptive, agreeable, socially acceptable, and pleasant around people, including women. Most people prefer to be friends with nice people. Unlike the asshole the nice guy is not a, “selfish replicator”, in that he does not push other men less attractive than him down in the process of trying to be sexually intimate with women.
Women Encourage Abusive Behaviour from Handsome Men
Most women genuinely prefer men to show high amounts of disregard and to be generally unpleasant during the initial stages of dating once men have passed their LMS test. While men instead prefer women to be receptive and agreeable during the initial stages of dating. This gives men an incentive to act like jerks to mirror the, “confidence”, women like from handsome men once they start dating to avoid being ghosted and an incentive for women to deny the existence of genuinely nice guys.
In school, a relatively small amount of men do most of the bullying and receive most of the sexual attention from women interested in sex. Women prefer bullying men to men who are bullied, sexually, and bullies have more sexual partners than the bullied.
One particular study states that, “a great deal of the evidence indicates two overlapping suites of psychological adaptations in women: those for securing long-term, cooperative social partnerships for rearing children and those for pursuing a dual-mating strategy in which women secure a social partner and engage in selective sexual affairs to gain access to [ domineering ] genes for offspring”. The lack of loyalty with a dual-mating strategy begets the feminine imperative.
Translation: women (programmed to search for the certain genes) have tendencies to fuck the Chads first, and once they become completely used up and hit the wall, search for a betabux to attain financial security and actually raise children with.
You see a ton of nice guy behaviour if you’ve worked around paraplegic men and women, who have the NICEST personalities. Is it just a coincidence they are also ugly? No! They are compensating for their looks and often low income/status as well with extreme niceness.
Fake “Nice Guys”
A common meme, exemplified by the r/niceguys subreddit, is that many superficially nice guys are only pretending to be nice in order to get laid, and will become vicious when they get rejected by a woman. Supposedly when women criticize nice guys, they are only criticizing these fake nice guys and not genuinely nice guys. However, there are certainly many cases where men have been criticized for being “simps” or “pushovers”, and where women have admitted to being attracted to arrogant or dark triad men, so the true story is probably a mix of both explanations.
Guys in the incelosphere called “nice” by normies