A wannabe slayer is an incel who just wants to get laid and doesn't care about your lovey-dovey crap. They wish they were a slayer, but they are instead probably a virgin. In other words, they are voluntarily romcel, but involuntarily celibate. They are also known as hopeless aromantics, because they desire sex and shun romance, but they end up getting neither. Wannabe slayers may resort to escortcelling.